The Introvert’s Survival Guide to Networking Events

Picture this: You’re standing at the entrance of a bustling conference hall, your heart racing as you contemplate entering the networking event. Sound familiar? If you’re an introvert like some of the Verjobs team, you’re probably nodding right now

But fear not! I’m here to share some strategies that’ll help you not just survive, but actually thrive at these events. And trust me, we’ve been through the networking slog more times than I care to count.

Here’s a pro tip that’s changed my networking game: arrive early. I know, I know, it sounds counterintuitive. But hear me out:

• You get to ease into the environment before it becomes a sea of people.
• Early birds are often fellow introverts – instant kinship!
• It’s easier to strike up conversations when there are fewer people around.

“Arriving early is like getting a head start in a race you didn’t want to run in the first place.”

– Every Introvert We’ve Spoken To

 

A recruiting expert once told me, “Preparation is the introvert’s secret weapon.” And boy, was she right! Before the event:

• Research who might be attending
• Prepare a few conversation starters
• Set realistic goals (Quality over quantity, folks!)

Remember, you’re not aiming to meet everyone in the room. Having three meaningful conversations is way better than collecting 20 business cards you’ll never look at again.

If possible, bring an extroverted friend or colleague. They can:

• Help initiate conversations
• Introduce you to others
• Provide a safe harbor in the sea of networking chaos

Just don’t use them as a crutch. The goal is still to make your own connections!

Feeling overwhelmed by aimless mingling? Give yourself a purpose:

Having a “role” can make you feel more comfortable and provide natural opportunities for interaction.

Here’s where we shine, fellow introverts. We’re naturally good listeners, so use that to your advantage!

1. Ask open-ended questions
2. Really listen to the responses
3. Watch as people appreciate being heard and the conversation flows more easily

As one experienced networker we know put it: “Networking isn’t about talking. It’s about listening.”

Feeling drained? It’s okay to take breaks. Find a quiet corner, step outside for some fresh air, or even take a quick bathroom break to recharge.

“Networking is a marathon, not a sprint. Pace yourself.”

– Verjobs’ team philosophy

 

After the event, don’t let those new connections go cold. Send a quick email or LinkedIn message to the people you met, referencing something you discussed. This follow-up is crucial for building lasting professional relationships.

Did you:

Congratulations! That’s a win in my book. Acknowledge your efforts, no matter how small they might seem.

Remember, networking is a skill. And like any skill, it gets easier with practice. The more events you attend, the more comfortable you’ll become. And who knows? You might even start to enjoy them (I know, shocking, right?).

So go forth, my introverted friends. Armed with these strategies, you’re ready to tackle any networking event that comes your way. Who said introverts can’t be networking ninjas?